You are better off alone

One needs to learn to walk away from toxic relationships to find blissful happiness. These relationships do not constrict to romantic relationships. It can be friendships or even unbreakable family ties. The ones that are biologically made to not hurt you. Yes, that's right. They hurt too. don't be in denial. Not with your own self at least.

•  If they are emotionally draining and mentally straining, it's time to walk away. 

• If they make you second guess yourself, it's time to walk away. 

• If you are making too much effort, one sided effort, then it's definitely time to walk away.

It's not worth it. No matter how much gratitude you are trying to express for whatever they have done for you. They might have moved mountains for you once but not anymore and if you have no place in their lives neither should they in yours. If you are going out of your way to keep them in your life, you should hit pause and ask yourself. Is it really worth it?

Maintaining relationships shouldn't be so hard. There are enough things in life that exhaust us, people especially the ones we love shouldn't be one of them. And while we are discussing people here. Let's also discuss about the impact they have on us and how we perceive ourselves to be. Yes yes we have all heard the "Don't define yourselves based on others". Well if you have been there, you know it's not easy. Kudos to those who can. But for those who can't its going to be a downward spiral. Don't worry you aren't alone.

They are people who find sadistic pleasure out of breaking a human. I will never understand how they are so much at peace with themselves doing that, by totally ruining a person for good.


But no one is going to be like

They are just going to fuck around with you until they can, maybe that's their defense mechanism. But hell no, not at the cost of someones' peace of mind. And the sad part is, you let them. (Lucky for them though.) No questions asked. No matter what. While suffering in silence and of course complaining about it to people who can't do anything about it and if they come up with an apt suggestion such as lets say "Walk away" all you can say is "Only if it was that easy" well that's true too. It isn't easy. It just isn't. Been there, Done that. So I know it isn't. But nothing is going to change until you make an effort. An effort to walk away for your own good. You don't need such love. What you don't realize is that not only are you robbing yourself from some good lovin' but you are also giving their ego something to feed on and once they are done with you (which the eventually will) they will find another likewise soul to prey on.

And if you worry that you will not find anyone like them again in your life. You are wrong, you wonderful human being. You will not only find people who would move mountains for you but also not escape the very chance they get to go away from you. And if you think you are not wrong then good, you don't need people like that, you are better off alone. Way way better. Happy and self satisfied. Without anyone trying to ruin you in every way possible. Not just to feel good about themselves but for pure entertainment sake. You deserve much better. Even if the 'Much Better' is you, yourself.